S&M: Sadism and Masochism sexual stimulation
S.T.D. or STD: Sexually transmitted disease.
Sacofricosis: cutting a hole in pant pocket to facilitate masturbation in public
Sadism: empowerment and arousal derived from injuring, creating discomfort or humiliation on others usually during foreplay
Sadomasochism by proxy: arousal from watching others disciplined
Sadomasochism, SM: sexual practices in an advanced level where pain, humiliation and power exchange are being used. SM has also dominance and submission, bondage and discipline, love bondage and erotic spanking.
Sadomasochism: inflicting and receiving pain, often to produce sexual excitement.
Safe Sex Circle: an agreement to confine exchange of bodily fluids and barrier-free intercourse to a closed group which has previously been screened for sexually transmitted diseases;
Safe Sex: ideal 100% safe sexual activity and especially sexual intercourse in which various measures (as the use of latex condoms) are taken to avoid diseases (as AIDS and other STD's) which are transmitted by sexual contact
Safe Sign: signal (could be a hand gesture or a "look") agreed up on by a couple as a subtle way of letting each other know about their comfort levels without making a scene. (see 'safeword')
Safe Word: word or phrase agreed up on by a couple as a subtle way of letting each other know about their comfort levels without making a scene. (see SAFE SIGN)
Safe, sane and consensual: in the SM community are characteristics of acceptable play. During activities, players take safety precautions or they do not participate in practice that could injure mentally or physically their partners. Before the activities they consent by negotiating.
Safe: used to describe a person who cannot conceive or impregnate; a man who has had a vasectomy. Also refers to a rubber or condom
Safer Sex: reality, not 100% safe, sexual activity and sexual intercourse where various measures are taken such as the use of latex condoms and barriers to avoid sexually transmitted disease also taking into account that no such measure is 100% safe or foolproof
Salirophilia: person ingesting human sweat or saliva (fluids with a salt content)
SAM: A popular acronym for a "Smart Assed Masochist". Folks who enjoy spankings just a wee bit more than they enjoy serving. Similar to a "Brat" in that the style frequently pushes the Dom's boundaries, rules and limits, but different in that the PURPOSE of the pushing is intentionally to get a well deserved session of corporal attention (typically a spanking).
Same Room Sex: inter-couple sex between couples in same room
Same Room Swinger: couples who prefer to swing together in the same room or at least have their partner present during their encounter.
Sapphism: Lesbianism
Sapphosadism: lesbian sadism
Sarmassophilia: arousal from kneading flesh
SASE: self-addressed stamped envelope.
Satan worship: religious rituals performed to Satan as a god
Satyriasis: men who have an uncontrollable desire for sex
Scarfing: the use of a scarf in strangulation for sexual arousal
Scat or shit: feces
Scat: arousal from using feces in sex play
Scelerophilia: attraction to bad guys or unsavory characters
Scene: the SM or fetish community or a SM session or occurrence during play.
Scissor fight: When two women press their vaginas together by intertwining their legs
Scopophilia: arousal from being stared at oneself
Scoptolagnia: arousal from seeing the genitals of the opposite sex
Scoptophilia: arousal from looking at sexually stimulating scenes, voyeurism
Score: To have sex. Especially used to describe a man having sex with a woman for the first time, to obtain sexual favors or intercourse
Scortum: prostitution
Scotophilia: turned on by darkness
Screw: the act of sexual intercourse
Scrotal infusion: infusion of saline into the scrotal sack so that it enlarges
Scrotum: the sac of skin that houses the testicles on a male.
Sdrucciola: to copulate
Sea Food: a Sailor as a sex object
Secondary Partner: a person of polyamorous orientation that is intimately involved in your life but usually not daily, the person provide emotional support may or may not provide economic support, there may be some sharing of resources, goal and life paths but they are few as compared to primary partners
Secondary Relationship: a close relationship type, by definition it is given less in terms of time, energy and priority in a person's life than any primary relationship, includes aspects of primary relating, such as sexuality and emotional support but usually involves fewer ongoing commitments as evidenced by fewer shared values, plans or financial/legal involvements, may include a desire for a long term future together
Selgolalia: telling stories that include sex
Semen: the sperm-containing fluid that a man expels when he has an orgasm.
Seminal vesicles: The seminal vesicles produce semen, a fluid that activates
Sensory compensation: our body's regulation of incoming stimulus to a tolerable level
Sensory deprivation: using lack of sensations to create desire, using blindfolds, gags, ear plugs, hoods, bondage, etc. to reduce information available to one or more senses.
Sensory enhancement: increasing arousal by increased body sensations
Sensory overload: inability of our body to absorb and comprehend incoming stimulus
Separate Swinger: couples who are more comfortable NOT having their partners present during an encounter.
Septophilia: sexual attraction to decaying matter
Seraglio: the Chinese practice of keeping wives secluded at home from other men
Serenades: musical performance during courtship given outdoors at night
Sergeism: infliction of injury to suppress arousal, auto-masochism, based on story of Sergius by Tolstoy
Serial Monogamy: a succession of monogamous partners over time, overlapping sexuality only in the transition from the current monogamous partner to next
Service: doing for another; the bottom for the Top, as an expression of
Sex addiction: compulsion to have sex
Sex Magick: the use of witchcraft rituals for sexual purposes
Sex Negative: a person with the belief that sexuality in general dirty or distasteful to including their own sexuality
Sex Positive: a person who is comfortable with own sexuality and sexuality in general
Sex rings: organized groups of children being sexually exploited by one or more adults
Sex surrogates: people who are trained to help people overcome sexual dysfunctions by engaging with sexual activity with them.
Sex Therapist: A counselor or psychologist who helps people with their sexual problems.
Sex toys: mechanical objects used to assist in masturbation or sex play
Sex: other than having sex, one's biological assignment as male or female, or in between (see inter-sexual).
Sexautism: tendency to be preoccupied with sexual thoughts
Sexercise: exercises designed to improve muscles used for sex
Sexologists: people who study the science of sex
Sexoschizia: bi-sexual
Sexual aberration: paraphilia
Sexual Aid/Sex Toy: A catch-all term for any device used for sexual stimulation.
Sexual anomalies: paraphilias
Sexual identity: how one perceives oneself as male, female, or in between. A biological female may identify as a male and vice versa.
Sexual intercourse, conjugation: inserting the male’s erect penis into the female's vagina, usually associated with thrusting to the point of orgasm.
Sexual inversion: arousal from person of same sex
Sexual Orientation: Sexual identification, depending on a person's sexual relationships or affinity.
Sexual sadist killer: lust murderer
Sexually-transmitted diseases (STDs): any disease, such as AIDS, which can be passed to another person during sexual activity. The classic STDs are syphilis and gonorrhea. A common modern STD is genital herpes.
Sexualove: the synergic fusing of love and sexuality into a single erotic emotion in an intimate relationship.
SGL: Single person.
Shaved: usually most or all of the pubic area
Shaving: removing the hair with a razor of a partner or oneself for arousal
Shemale: a transsexual who has not yet undergone a complete sex change, so that he has both breasts and a penis.
Showers: depositing body fluids onto a partner's body
Shrimp,and/or Shrimping: Licking or sucking someone's toes during sex.
Shunammitism: bundling
Siderodromophilia: arousal from trains and riding in them.
Significant Other: One's chosen romantic partner.
Silicone: An expensive, quality material used to make high-end toys.
Single: A swinger without a partner, single or married.
Siphnianize: anal masturbation
Sissy: a boy or man seen as having feminine qualities; often a negative term.
Sitophilia: arousal from food and eating
Sixty-nine (69): oral sex performed by two people on each other simultaneously. Called "69" due to the shape of the two numerals, which suggests the sex act.
Skiing: While facing in the same direction, a girl gets between two guys and jerks them both off, thus imitating some hardcore cross-country action.
Slapping: slapping partner for arousal
Slave: person who is consensually owned as property of another,
Slaves: person who contracts to be sex slave
Sleeping princess syndrome: those aroused by partner who appears to be asleep
Slings: swings or other forms of support for suspension from which a person may engage in sex
Slut: A woman who enjoys being gang-banged by a group of men or a woman who has had many sexual partners; person who seeks for and/or participates in indiscriminate sexual behavior, but usually not in reference to being for hire
Smash: A young woman's crush on another woman. The term was used in late nineteenth century and early twentieth century women's colleges.
Smegma: a white secretions from gland under foreskin of penis or clitoris
Snapping pussy: constrictions of muscles used for orgasm
Snatch: vulva/vagina, copulation or sexual interaction in general
Snowball: After a man ejaculates in someone's mouth, passing the semen back and forth between partners.
Snuff films: films that portray the actual murder and mutilation of one of the actors
Snuffing: sex play which results in death; e.g., a snuff scene involves someone's death
Soceraphilia: excitement from one’s parents-in-law
Social Swing Club: a swing club, generally private membership that offers social and swinging activities including a regular schedule of on-premise swing parties. They may also offer educational and travel activities. Usually there is a membership fee and either party fees, party donations or a regular maintenance fee or dues. Party attendance may be restricted to couples though the marital status of the couple is rarely important.
Social: a party, dance or other gathering usually sponsored by a swing club or magazine, for swingers to meet and socialize. There is no swinging at a social but privately arranged swinging may follow a social.
Sodomy: oral or anal intercourse involving penetration with male, female, or animal
Soft Swinging or Soft Swapping: swapping up to, but not including intercourse; a social, erotic swing party environment where sexual activity is common and available, but not required or assumed.
Solosexual: having a preference for sex with one's
Somnophilia: fondling stranger in their sleep
Sophophilia: sexual gratification from learning
Sorophilia: attraction to one’s sister
Sororate marriage: right of spouse to engage in sex with sisters-in-law or sometimes brothers-in-law
Sororilagnia: sex with one's own sister
Sorted: arrangements have been completed
Sotadism: anal sex
Sounding: insertion of an object into the urethra
Spadonism: Eunuchry
Spanking: using hand to slap partner's buttocks for sensory enhancement and arousal
Spay: castration
Spectrophilia: either coitus with spirits or arousal from image in mirrors
Speculum: dilating device used by physicians when doing pelvic exams and in SM medical scenes
Sperm: Microscopic, tadpole-like reproductive cells contained in semen. A sperm cell contains half the genes necessary to create a child; the other half is contributed by the mother's egg.
Spermacide: A birth control product designed to kill the sperm in the vagina before they can reach the wife's egg.
Spermatophobia: fear of semen loss
Sphagia: a sacrifice used to placate the gods, the whole offering was completely burned
Sphincter: anal or urethral muscle that closes to prevent passage of urine or feces
Spice: Plural of spouse
Spintry: a male whore
Splitting: splitting the penis from the glans toward the base
Sport Swinger: couples and singles who are strictly interested in sex--as frequently and with as many partners as possible. They are not necessarily interested in friendships or sharing non-swing activities with the people they meet. This type is usually the exception to the rule—most prefer a "friends first" relationship.
Spouse: a persons husband or wife
SRS: sex reassignment surgery.
Stabbing: insertion of a sharp object into flesh
Stag parties: private parties where only men and possibly a female stripper or entertainer are permitted
Stallion: a male who possess a very large penis
Stapling: inserting a U-shaped wire into skin during sex play
Stasivalence: ability to have sexual intercourse only while standing
Statuophilia: sexual attraction to statues
Staurophilia: arousal from the cross or crucifix
Steak and potatos: she's just right.
Sthenolagnia: arousal from demonstration of strength or muscles
Stigmatophilia: arousal from partner who is stigmatized (i.e., tattoos, piercing, scars)
Stingy Nut: Jerk off and cuming all over a lovers buttocks.
STR: (see STRAIGHT)
STR-8: or Str8 (see STRAIGHT)
Strabismus: arousal from eyes of partner
Straight: a swinger who is not interested in same sex sexual activity; a non-swinger
Straight: non-swinger; a swinger who is not interested in same sex sexual activity; a person who does not use drugs; non bisexual, non-gay
Strangulation: controlling oxygen by restricting windpipe or blood vessels in neck
Strap-On: A dildo or vibrator that is attached via a harness (generally in the genital region).
Stretching: stretching body or genitals for arousal
String bondage: constrictions; wrapping string around body at certain intervals for arousal
Strip poker: card game where the losers remove articles of clothing
Strip search: interrogation process where sex partner is stripped and searched
Stripper: Someone who exposes their nude or semi-nude body for money. Strippers or (dancers); often references objectified female sexuality in general
Stripping: removal of clothes, sometimes performed on stage in an erotic manner
STUD: a male who is in great demand as a sex partner
Student: the submissive role during English scenario
Stuffing: insertion of objects into vagina or anus
Stupprator: man who is aroused by virgins
Stupration: rape
Stygiophilia: Deriving pleasure from thoughts of hell
Sub / submissive: plays the passive, controlled role during scenario
Subagitation: Copulation
Subincision: cutting part of the glands penis from the tip toward the base
Subliminal tapes: audiotapes that give messages intended to alter habits
Submission: surrender to and trust of a partner, volitional giving up of control and power: decision that one is not in charge
Subpersonality: a temporary personality or character change but one where the person does not lose all consciousness with their current surroundings, they are often from childhood
Succubus: a female spirit who was thought to lie underneath men and have sex with them while they slept
Suck-off: to perform oral intercourse on a penis, aka fellatio
Sugar Daddy: a man who keeps a younger person for sexual favors
Supinovalent: able to fornicate only while lying on the back
Support groups: groups of people that find solace in discussing a common problem
Suspension: suspending body for sensory deprivation and bondage
Suttee: religious practice of killing wife upon husband's death and burial
Suturing: stitching flesh together
Swapping: two couples exchanging partners for sexual activity, a form of swinging in which two or more primary partnered couples exchange partners for recreational sex
Swedish Culture: use of the hands especially in massage to sexually stimulate
Swimmer's Ear: coming into the ear of a woman
Swing Club: a meeting place where recreational sexual activity take place; an organization that support, encourage and promotes recreational sexual activities
Swing Magazine: A periodical catering to the swinging community. Usually carries personal ads of people wishing to meet others for swinging purposes. May also publish articles of general interest to the swinging community
Swinger: a person who is sophisticated, ultra-fashionable, active , uninhibited in the pursuit of pleasure or sex
Swinging Lifestyle: style of living with swinging a major component in recreation, choice of friends, business and social life, and intimate relationships.
Swinging Marriage: marriage incorporating swinging and often, humanistic ideals.
Swinging: social-sexual relational recreation among men and women. It is a couple oriented activity but single men and women sometimes are involved. Recreational sexual activity, also called "sport sex" where partner's or participant's agree to have casual sex with each other's. There is usually no emotional involvement. AKA, group sex or wife swapping
Switch: people who play either the top or bottom role (sadist or masochist)
Sybian: a vibrating dildo that sits on top of an object that resembles a saddle
Sympathy-fuck aka mercy-fuck: sexual activity initiated or motivated by pity rather than by arousal, love, or financial gain (e.g., a wife gives sex only because husband looks sad, or a prostitute doesn’t charge for sex due to feeling sorry for client) to be had to be taken advantage of, or to be the recipient of copulation, usually the unwilling recipient piece or piece of ass; an event of copulation or a sexually desirable person
Symphorophilia: arousal from arranging a disaster, crash, or explosion
Synergy: the state of a system in which the whole is greater that the sum of its parts : similar harmony as expressed musically : Synergism: interaction of discrete agencies (as industrial firms), agents (as drugs), or conditions such that the total effect is greater than the sum of the individual effects synergist
Syngenesophilia: Sexual attraction to one’s relatives
Syntribate: rubbing thighs together to masturbate