Nanophilia: sexual attraction to a short partner
Naphephilia: arousal from touching or being touched
Narcissism: self love
Narratophilia: arousal from erotic conversations
Narratophilia: person who is aroused by discussing sex with others
NASCA: the North American Swing Club Association. An association of swing clubs and magazines to promote swinging as the viable and beneficial lifestyle it has become, to give a national voice to the growing swinging community and to promote the development of ethical swing clubs.
Nasolingus: arousal from sucking nose of partner
Nasophilia: nose fetish
Nasty: sexual desire or behavior, most often indiscriminate
Natural family planning: birth control by rhythm method
Naughty: sexual behavior or desire
Neanilagnia: a desire for nymphets
Nebulophilia: arousal from fog
Neck: to embrace, kiss and fondle
Necrochlesis: sex with a female corpse
Necrocoitus: penetration of corpses
Necrophagia: cannibalism of corpses
Necrophilia: The desire to have sex with dead bodies
Necrosadism: sadism or mutilation of corpses
Negotiation: conferring and discussing to reach an agreement about what will happen in an SM scene regarding likes, dislikes, limits, health issues, roles, etc.
Nemophilia: love of forests
Neolagnium: Puberty
Neophilia: arousal from novelty or change
Nepirasty: arousal from handling infant often experienced by childless females
New Relationship Energy: energy that flows between partners in a "new" relationship, the excitement and discovery that occurs during this time as opposed to old relationship energy that is part of a more settled, stable, comfortable time in the relationship
Newbies: New people in swinging; First-timers.
Newcomers: New people in swinging; First-timers.
Newcomers: new people in swinging; first-timers
Niddah: abstaining from sex 1/3 of the time to create arousal during rest of month
Nipple Clamps: Small clips designed to be attached to the nipples. Often attached with a chain.
nish: nothing/none/no more
Nocturnal Emission: ejaculation of semen during sleep. It is usually accompanied by erotic dreams and is most prevalent during the teen years - though males who masturbate regularly may experience it rarely or not at all.
Nocturnal emission: When a man has an erotic dream and ejaculates in his sleep. A wet dream
Nomavalent: arousal from traveling or new places, usually impotent at home
Non-kinky: "traditional" sex, usually between men and women.
Non-monogamy: a relationship which allows for more that one sexual relationship at a time
Nonsmoker: does not smoke. If used in personal ad means only those who do not smoke are sought for swinging purposes.
Nooner: A sexual encounter during the lunchtime hour, especially one that takes place at the office
Normophilia: those only aroused by acts considered normal by their religion or society
Nosophilia: arousal from knowing partner has terminal illness
Nosophilia: love of becoming ill
Nothosonomia: calling someone a bastard
Novercamania: sexual attraction to one's stepmother
Novice: a person with lack of experience in SM, but willing to learn.
Now, back to punishment: A good punishment acts as a deterrent while instructing and motivating. Therefore, recreational spankings can hardly be considered punishment. Many submissives enjoy a good spanking - and a masochistic submissive can enjoy floggings, whippings, and more. However, the same amount of physical sensation can be applied with different attitudes and techniques to change a delightful erotic experience into something that even the masochistic the submissive does not like at all.
NT: nipple torture, or intense stimulation of the nipples
Nudity (Recreational): nudity in group settings, beaches, nudist camps, etc.
Nudomania: arousal from nudity
Nyctophilia: Love of night
Nymph: young woman or nature goddesses
Nympholepsy: trance state induced by erotic fantasies and daydreams
Nymphomania: Derogatory term for a woman who is sexually obsessed or has sex with many partners
Nymphomania: uncontrollable desire of woman for sex
Nymphophilia: adult males who are attracted to young females
Nymphotomy: removal of the inner labia