Half-and-half: when a prostitute performs fellatio and sexual intercourse in a single sex session.
Hamartophilia: love of committing sinful acts
Hand Job: stimulating a male to orgasm by another person, using the hands on the penis.
Handkerchief Codes: color codes to identify sexual preferences
Handmade: a large penis allegedly developed through masturbation
Haptephilia: arousal by being touched
Haptosis: non-consensual sexual touching
Harassment, sexual: unwelcome and unsolicited sexual activity or sexually-oriented comments. Sexual harassment is sin as well as illegal.
Hard Core: a swing party or swing engagement where sexual intercourse is assumed and expected.
Hard Swinging: see Hard Core
Hard: when a man is aroused with a stiff penis due to sexual stimulation.
Hard-on: an erect penis
Hard-On: an erection penis
Hard-up: lack of sexual activity and need for a sex partner.
Harem effect: lesbianism Harlotry: prostitution
Harem: area where Arabs kept wives at home and separated from others
Harmatophilia: arousal from sexual incompetence or mistakes, usually in female partner
Harmatophobia: fear of sexual incompetence or making a mistake
Harness: Used to attach a strap-on.
Harnesses: body harnesses used in suspension or penis restriction
Harpaxophilia: arousal from being robbed or burglarized
Hay and peanuts: reference to an individual which is deemed too fat.
Head: oral-genital sexual activity; "giving head"
Heautontimorumenos: Masochist
Heavy Play: sophisticated or advanced activities or techniques used for psychological or physical stimulation that require special training for safety reasons, e.g. breath control, cutting, temporary and/or permanent piercing, branding, burning, electroplay: also play that is very intense physically and / or psychologically, as very intense pain, or very intense surrender.
Hebephilia: men aroused by teenage boys
Hebetic: happening at puberty
Hedonism: act of indulging in pleasure
Hedonist: One who lives for pleasure, sometimes an euphemism for a swinger
Hedonophilia: sexual arousal from engaging in pleasurable activity
Hedonophobia: fear of pleasure
Hedralingus: licking anus
Hematolagnia: sexual stimulation from blood
Hemerotism: daydreaming or fantasizing about sex or nudity
Hemipenis: one of the paired sex organs of many reptiles
Hemotigolagnia: arousal from bloody sanitary pads
Hermaphrodite: person who has both part female and male genitalia
Hetaerae: the highest class Greek prostitute or female companion
Hetaerism: extramarital sex; communal marriage
Heterophilia: arousal from members of the opposite sex
Heterosexism: A bias toward heterosexuality, to the exclusion of homosexuality.
Heterosexual: a person who has sex with members of the opposite sex.
Heterosexualism: arousal from members of the opposite sex
Hierophilia: arousal from sacred objects
Hinge: Refers to Vee's, or similar dynamics in a more complex relationship, the "person in the middle", more bonded to each end than they are to each other, is sometimes called the hinge. Without the hinge, the others people often go their separate ways.
Hirsutophilia: arousal from armpit hair
Hodophilia: arousal from traveling
Homilophilia: sexual arousal from hearing or giving sermons
Homoeroticism: sexual arousal from person of same sex
Homophilia: sexual arousal from person of same sex
Homophobia: fear of same gender sex partner
Homosexual: sexual attraction to members of the same sex.
Homosexuality: arousal by partners of the same sex
Horny: sexually tense; In need of sexual pleasure.
Horse-around: to explore sexually without engaging in intercourse
Hot Wax: sex game where hot wax is melted onto partner
Hot-Pants: sexually aroused
Humanist: person who believes in human values, potential, self-respect of the individual, personal freedom and human rights
Humiliation: deliberate ego reduction for consensual erotic purposes, ranging from mild embarrassment to degradation; may be physical and /or psychological.
Humiliation: Part of the erotic control to embarrass or to humble someone by teasing them about their sexual desires. In SM humiliation, ironically, can build a person's self-esteem by reinforcing their sexuality; degrading partner to establish sexual power
Hummer: The well known added variation to a blowjob in which a woman hums her favorite tune while she sucks away.
Humpasaurs: General pains and muscle discomfort brought on by poorly executed sexual activity.
Hung: Refers to a man with a large penis.
Husband: a male partner in a marriage or committed relationship
Hustler: a prostitute that searches for customers
Hybristophilia: love of someone who has committed an outrage
Hygrophilia: arousal from body fluids or moisture
Hymen: A thin membrane which covers the opening to a virgin's vagina. The hymen does have a small opening which permits douching and the use of tampons but not sexual intercourse. When the hymen is broken during sexual intercourse, some pain and slight bleeding may occur.
Hymenoclasis: surgical defloration of virgin
Hymenorrhaphy: suturing of the hymen
Hymenorrhexis: defloration of hymen
Hyperphilia: compulsive desire for sex
Hyphephilia: arousal from touching skin, hair, leather, fur or fabric
Hypnophilia: turned on by the thought of sleeping
Hypnosis: act that induces a level of sleep