D & S: Dominance and Submission, terms which are preferred to use to reference sadomasochistic sexual interaction
D/D FREE: No Drugs or Diseases
Dacnolagnomania: lust murder
Dacrylagnia: arousal from seeing tears in the eyes of a partner
Dacryphilia: person who is aroused by seeing their partner cry
Daisy-chain: a group sex activity in which there is a linking of several people by oral connections. Example: Partner (A) is sucking off or eating out partner (B) who is sucking off or eating out partner (C) and so on until the final person is sucking off or eating out partner (A). Partners can be gay, lesbian or straight.
Dame de voyage: dolls designed for genital penetration, often used by sailors
Danse du ventre: erotic or fertility dancing; belly dance
Darkmeat: a black male or female as a sexual object
Dasypygal: having hairy buttocks
Dating services: agencies arranging for strangers to meet each other, usually for a fee
Day belts: chastity device used for short day excursions
De Clerambault's syndrome: arousal from defecation
Deep Throat: fellatio in which the penis is inserted far into the mouth, entering the throat.
Defilement: arousal from partner or self becoming dirty or wet
Deflower: for a man to have sexual intercourse with a virgin woman.
Deliberate self-harm syndrome: auto-masochism
Demon and/or evil spirit: an agent of Satan with a specific interest in any illicit human sexual activity, including, but not limited to: child molestation, incest, rape, lust, fornication, pornographic fantasies, adultery, homosexuality, and bestiality.
Dendrophilia: arousal from tree or fertility worship of them
Dendrophilia: Attraction to trees
Dental dam: a safe sex barrier, usually made of a flat sheet of of latex, used when performing oral sex on women.
Deosculate: to kiss affectionately
Depilation: shaving, waxing, or other type of hair removal
Depuscelate: to lose one's virginity
Dermagraphism: marks left on the skin of a partner by biting, scratching or sucking
Dermaphilia: sexual stimulus from skin
Desire: The normal, natural need felt by male and female to have sexual intercourse, especially during foreplay.
Deviance: practice that deviates from the majority of society
Dick: often offensive term used to refer to the penis or a man
Diddle: to perform masturbation
Digenesis: alternately sexual and asexual reproduction
Digenous: bisexual
Dildos and Plugs: an artificial penis, usually made of rubber or plastic, for sexual stimulation and penetration of the vagina and sometimes the anus
Dinge Queen: male homosexual who prefers black sex partners
Dioestrum: the time when a female animal is not in heat
Dippoldism: sexual arousal from abusing children
Director: the term used to describe the principal person who runs or otherwise operates a swing club, generally the owner. A person who works for the director and is responsible for party or club operation whether or not for pay, is generally call a manager
Dirty Sanchez: performing oral sex on someone after they engage in anal sex, or after anal sex, wiping off off the dirty penis or hand on the woman's upper lip, to simulate a moustache.
Discipline: a sexual fetish in which one partner dominates the other, a willing participant. Often includes physical punishment of the submissive partner, ranges from physical restraint to mild spankings to painful beatings.
Discretion: asking those who write or call to exercise caution so that children or others who may open mail or answer phone will not be offended and/or made aware of the swinging activity.
Diseases (STD or VD): sexually transmitted diseases, also called venereal diseases
Divertissement: paraphilia
Docile: willing to receive bondage and/or discipline (see SUBMISSIVE).
Docking: slipping one partner's foreskin over the glans penis of another
Dog: an unattractive or undesirable person
Doggie style: sexual intercourse where the man enters the woman's vagina from her back side; also referred to as rear-entry.
Dogging: couples who engage in sex in their car while others watch from outside
Doleros: arousal from pain
Dom: see Dominant
Domestic Training: submissive obedience to household chores of an intimate and humiliating nature.
Dominance: controlling and directing the scene
Dominance/Submission: power exchange between partners
Dominant: the sexual partner in control of the willing submissive partner.
Domination: sexual role playing involving power over another. See also: masochism. Bondage and domination, or BD, B/D.
Dominatrix: a dominant person in a bondage or S&M relationship; usually denotes a female professional.
Dong: the penis
Donkey punch: having anal sex with someone and punching them in the back of the head to make them pass out. Said to induce a clenching of the anal sphincter in the unconscious person.
Doraphilia: arousal from animal fur, leather, or skin
Double Dildo (Double Dong): A double-ended dildo. Can be used by two individuals simultaneously.
Douches: rinsing out the anus or vagina with liquids
Dowcet: a deer's testicle
Dowry: sum of money or goods paid to parents of future husband or wife
DP or Double penetration: penetration of the vagina and anus simultaneously.
Drag queens: gay men who dress in female attire
Drag: wearing clothing and make-up typical of the opposite sex; so as to appear to actually be of the opposite sex
Dressing Down: getting naked or into your "party clothes"
Drive-it-home: forceful intercourse
Dungeons: rooms that are decorated for SM play, aka playroom
DVDA: The abbreviation for "double-anal, double-vaginal". This is the term used when a girl takes four cocks in two holes. A hard core porn industry norm.
Dyad: A sexualove relationship consisting of two primary partners.
Dyke: Once known as a derogatory term for lesbian, the word dyke was reclaimed by lesbians in the 1970's as slang, and many lesbians now refer to themselves as dykes.
Dysfunctions: physical disorders relating to sex
Dysmorphophilia: arousal from deformed or physically impaired partners
Dystychiphilia: Deriving sexual pleasure from accidents