C P: Corporal Punishment, a type of B&D/sadomasochistic sexual interaction
C&B or CBT: cock and ball torture; intense stimulation of the male genitals more
Callipygian: having shapely buttocks
Can Entertain: Advertiser willing to invite others to their home for swinging. an Travel: Advertiser will travel to your home to swing.
Can Travel: prefer not to have you at our house (usually due to children at home)
Candaulism: spouse who watches partner having sex with someone else
Caning: The use of a cane or a flexible rod on a bottom. Usually very intense and leaving pronounced marks, usually to discipline a partner
Canophilia: turned on by dogs
Capnolagnia: arousal from watching others smoke
Caponize: to castrate a chicken
Carrots and lettuce: reference to a partner who is too thin.
Castration: removal of the scrotum, testicles, ovaries, or penis
Cat Fighting: women fighting without rules and often tearing off each other's clothing
Cat or cat o' nine tails: Originally it was a whip used by the British Navy. Actually it is referred to all whips which are multi-thonged.
Catagelophilia: love of being ridiculed
Catamenia: menstruation
Catamite: a boy used in homosexual relations
Catamites: young gay male lovers
Cataphilist: male submitting to female
Catatasis: stretching of the penis
Catheterophilia: arousal from use of catheters
Catheters: insertion of plastic tube into urethra
CD: crossdresser, crossdressing.
Celibacy: abstinence from sex
Cellular Family: A multi-adult family whose structure allows new partners to be added to the family with mutual consent.
Change Your Luck: to engage in homosexual sex for the first time
Chaperon: person who escorts a young couple to ensure they don't engage in sex
Charms: objects used to bring good luck and ward off evil
Chasmophilia: attraction to nooks, crannies, crevices, and chasms
Chaste sex: Sexual intercourse between husband and wife after marriage. CHASTE: to engage in ordinary sexual activities
Chastity Belts: leather or metal belts used to prevent genital penetration
Chastity: sexual abstinence
Cheat: to be unfaithful to one's sexual partner
Cheating: sexual activity with others without spouse's knowledge and consent.
Cheeks: the fleshy portions of the buttocks
Cheimaphilia: deriving pleasure from cold or winter
Chemise Cagoule: long heavy night shirt with hole for penis
Cherry : the 'hymen' or figuratively used for virginity, as in "to pop someone's cherry", to take someone's virginity.
Chezolagnia: masturbating while defecating
Chicken: a young attractive male
Chionophilia: love of snow
Chipil: Couvade syndrome
Chocolate Starfish: humorous term for the anus, so named because the anus looks like a starfish, "chocolate" refers to shit
Choreophilia: dancing to orgasmic release
Chrematistophilia: person aroused by having to pay for sex or having sex partner steal from them (see also harpaxophilia)
Chronophilia: arousal from passage of time; arousal from older partner
Chrysophilia: arousal from gold or golden objects
Chubby Chasers: people who are aroused by obesity in partner
Cicatrization: scarring
Circle Jerk: masturbation in a group.
Circumcision: the removal of foreskin on genitals
Clamps: metal, plastic, or wood fasteners used on nipples or genitals
Clan: an extended family, including secondary and tertiary relationships, who regard themselves as a clan.
Clap: 'gonorrhea' usually used in the phrase "the clap"
Claustrophilia: arousal from being confined in small space
Clean: hygienic and free of sexually transmitted diseases
Clergy: derogatory reference to individuals who have sexual hang-ups
Climacophilia: deriving pleasure by falling down stairs
Climax : orgasm
Clit : clitoris
Clitoral Stimulator: A vibrator that is designed to be worn against the body using straps.
Clitoridectomy: surgical removal of the clitoris
Clitorilingus: licking a clitoris
Clitoris: the female sexual organ located at the top front of the vulva that, when stimulated, becomes hard and can produce an orgasm
Clitoromania: nymphomania
Closed Door: see Closed Swinging
Closed Marriage : Marriages where their is no outer emotional relating or sexuality
Closed Group Marriage: A group of individuals who describe themselves as married but may or may not be all primaries and who are Closed to outside sexual relationships 2: A marriage in which fidelity is not equated with monogamy
Closed Relationship: An agreement among the members not to get sexually and/or romantically involved with anyone outside the relationship
Closed Swinging: Sexual interaction among couples using separate rooms so that partners of a marriage or other intimate relationship do not visually observe each other's swinging. Sometimes called "closed door" swinging or "separate room" swinging.
Closed Swinging: inter-couple sex between couples in different rooms
Closed/Exclusive Relationship: a sexual-love relationship in which the partners have agreed to have no other lovers outside of the relationship.
Closet Queen: a male homosexual who is hiding his sexual desires for men from the public
Closet Swinger: A person who hides the he/she is a swinger.
Closet: The confining state of being secretive about one's homosexuality.
Closeted: hiding one's sexuality or gender predilection from others or the public.
Co-Wife or Co-Husband: terms used to describe one's other partners in a group marriage.
Cock : penis
Cock Rings: rings placed around the base of the male genitals to maintain erections
Cock Snot : another term for semen
Cocksucker: one who performs oral intercourse on a penis
Cocktails: drinking of body secretions from a glass
Code word(s): Word or words that are used in personal ads to unnoticed sexual proclivities mostly unacceptable in society. Ex: French or Greek culture, clean, discipline, strict, leather, etc.
Coitobalnism: sex in a bathtub
Coitolimia: tremendous sexual drive
Coitophobia: fear of sexual intercourse
Coitus à Cheval: couple having sex on the back of an animal or one acting out role of horse
Coitus a Mammilla: penetration of penis between breasts
Coitus à Unda: sex or sex games in water
Coitus analis: anal sex
Coitus interruptus: withdrawal of the penis prior to ejaculation
Coitus Intrafermoris: penetration between legs
Coitus reservatus: birth control method where male withdraws penis before ejaculation
Coitus: sexual penetration with orgasm
Cold Lunch: The act of vomiting directly onto the head of a person while they are performing fellatio.
COLD: unresponsive to sexual relations or actions
Collar: band of leather, metal, cloth, etc. encircling the neck; signifies a bottom role
Colobosis: mutilation or castration of penis
Come : refers to the action of orgasm; also refers to 'semen', can also be spelled 'cum'
Come out: To acknowledge one's homosexuality, either to oneself or to others; most often a public declaration of being lesbian or gay.
Commasculation: homosexuality between males
Commune: a community; interchange of thoughts and feelings; converse; communal: to be owned or shared by a community and/or public
Community: a body of people living in the same place under the same laws; also : a natural population of plants and animals that interact ecologically and live in one place (as a pond); society at large; joint ownership
Compersion : the feeling of taking joy in the joy that others you love share among themselves, especially taking joy in the knowledge that your beloveds are expressing their love for one another.
Commitment Ceremony: Any ritual, religious or secular, for honoring the union of lesbian or gay male couples.
Compersion: Warm happy feelings experienced when noticing ones loved ones enjoying loving relationships with others. The opposite of jealousy.
Compulsive Cruising: compulsive search for sex partners
Computer sex: the use of computers for sex games, communication, and erotic photography
Conception: The point at which the male sperm unites with the females egg, causing life to begin.
concha (Spanish): collective name for female external genitalia, especially labia minora and vagina (which at times somewhat resemble a shell/concha)
Concubinage: use of female slaves as sex partners; living with sex partner without being married
Concupiscence: excessive sexual desire
Condom Commitment : an agreement to confine exchange of bodily fluids and barrier-free intercourse to a closed group which has previously been screened for sexually transmitted diseases. safe sex circle
Condom Compact: is collection of rules and responsibilities to help members involved in open multiple partner relationships protect themselves against STD.
Condoms: latex or animal intestine used as shield to guard against skin-to-skin contact with partner's genitals
Confessions: admitting a sin; in some cases to arouse potential partner
Conscious Courtship: dedication is in seeing that commitment and emotional or bonding are developed and based on values and goal alignment as well as initial and on-going attraction
Consensual: An agreement made by parties for certain type of behavior or activities. When the consent is informed and there is a reasonable knowledge of possible risks is called true consent. not coerced
Constrictions: bondage using rows of strings
Contraceptive: Any device, product, or process which prevents conception.
Contrectation: the love play preceding sexual intercourse
CONTRECTATION: The love play preceding sexual intercourse
Convertite: a reformed prostitute
Cooperative: willing to work with others; of or relating to an association formed to enable its members
Coprography: writing obscene words or phrases, usually in public toilets
Coprolagnia: arousal from feces
Coprolalia: arousal from using obscene language or writing
Coprology: The study of pornography
Coprophagy: the consumption of feces
Coprophemia: Obscene language
Coprophilia: arousal from playing with feces, also called scat
Coproscopist: arousal from watching a person defecate
Corephallism: anal sex with young girl
Cornhold: anal intercourse
Corona: rim of flesh which forms the base of the head of the penis
Corpa Cavernosa: The corpora cavernosa are the two spongy bodies of erectile tissue on either side of the penis which become engorged with blood from arteries in the penis, thus causing erection.
Corsetting: body modification or oxygen restriction from using corsets
Corvus: fellatio
Costumes: the use of costumes in sexual fantasy play
Couple in swinging: a man and a woman. may be married, living together (cohabitating), committed (on going relationship) or a single couple dating for swinging purposes; cpl
Couple: In swinging, a man and a woman. May be married, living together, committed, in an on going relationship or a single couple dating for swinging purposes.
Courtesans: the mistress of a king or nobleman
Courting: The process by which people explore how it feels to form or join in a committed relationship. Courtship: the period before marriage where a person tries to entice the other into a commitment
Couvade syndrome: a male who experiences symptoms of pregnancy in sympathy for wife
Couvade: custom where male mimics child birth or is confined at time of wife's delivery
Cowboy: A male person who believes that alternative relationships are unstable, and consciously or unconsciously tries to pull one of the partners off into a monogamous relationship with themselves. Refers to "cutting a filly out of the herd".
Cowgirl : A female cowboy
Cowper's Gland:  a part of the male reproductive system that secretes pre-ejaculatory fluid.
CPL: couple
Crabs: pubic lice, or VD/STD in general
Crack: vagina or buttock cleavage or, of course, [3] rock cocaine
Cranking: copulating or using amphetamines
Cratolagnia: arousal from strength of partner
Cream : used in reference to men: to ejaculate. When used with women: to produce vaginal lubrication; to female ejaculate.
Cross-dress: for a man to wear women's clothing. Used especially for men who only occasionally dress as women but maintain their masculine identity otherwise. Refer to Transvestite and Transsexual
Crossdresser: a person who occasionally dresses in the clothing of the opposite sex for sexual or emotional pleasure, or both. The most commonly-used term, having replaced transvestite. May be male or female, hetero- or homosexual, bi- or solosexual, and may partially or wholly cross-dress.
Cross-dressing: a person who wears the apparel of the opposite sex
Crotch: the juncture of the thighs with the body area, aka the genital area
Crotchless and/or crotchless panties: underwear with cutouts exposing the genitalia
Criuise: the hunt for a sexual partner, usually refers to actions by homosexual men
Crurofact: leg fetish
Crurophilia: sexual arousal from legs
Crushing: a fetish practice where someone steps on food, insects, or even small animals.
Cryptoscopophilia: desire to see behavior of others in privacy of their home, not necessarily sexual
Cuckold: a man whose wife is having sex with other partners, with his knowledge and consent, while he remains faithful to the marriage,
Cuckoldry: a man whose wife has sex or becomes impregnated by a man other than himself
Culture: euphemism for fetish, arts. See English Culture, Greek Culture,
Cum: as a noun, it usually refers to semen; as a verb, it means to reach orgasm. Also sometimes spelled "come."
Cundrum: a rubber or condom
Cunnilalia: to talk about female genitals
Cunnilingus: oral sex on a woman
Cunnilingus: oral sex performed on a woman; specifically, licking the clitoris of a woman to produce an orgasm.
Cunt: often offensive term used to refer to the vagina or a woman
Cupping: drawing blood to the surface of skin by placing heated glass jars onto the skin
Curvies: female secondary sex characteristics, particularly referencing the rounded outlines of waist, breasts, and buttocks
Cut: circumcised
Cutting: cicatrization, or scarring of skin for sexual purposes
Cyesolagnia: pregnant woman fetish
Cymbalism: lesbianism
Cynophilia: arousal from sex with dogs
Cyprian: Lecherous
Cypridophobia: Fear of getting venereal disease
Cyprieunia: sex with a prostitute